Sometimes, you just have to let go of some people. If they come back to you as a better person then they really love you and are meant to be in your life. If they don't, it's time to let them go. You can try and try and try to change a person but they won't ever really change until you show them you won't put up with it anymore.
When a person is so toxic, and mean, and they just feed off of drama it's time to let them go. When all they do is guilt trip you and make you feel bad for their wrongs or for trying to do one thing that's good for you instead of just them for once it's time to let them go. When you try to talk to them about your problems and want them there for you as a friend or family but yet they turn it back around to their problems instead of yours they aren't worth it anymore. All they are doing is dragging you down. Focus on the people that are there when you need them. When you say you feel like dying and they say no you're going to be okay and make it out of this alive. When you say you can't handle it anymore and they say just hold on a little bit longer. Those are the real friends and family and people in your life worth keeping.
There are some though, that think they are the only ones with problems. Some that make others feel like they aren't worthy of life or living. These people love to act like a queen or king and like they rule the world and your world. They guilt trip you on your decisions and get mad when you try to run your own life and decisions. If you know me well enough and you're reading this, you know who I'm talking about because you know her too.
These type of people aren't real family or friends or lovers. They aren't who you need them to be and they aren't there when you need them. They'll claim they do everything in their power to make you happy, but then when it comes down to helping you they only worry about themselves and their problems. They'll crap talk everyone in the book then when someone else does it to them they get hurt. They'll feed off of drama and love to live in it. It's like drama is food to them and they can't survive without it. They are always mad at either you or another family member or friend. Then even when they are supposedly best friends with someone, they'll talk badly about them. They are severely two-faced and will not change nor grow up no matter how old they are.
They say something about you never calling even though they know you never call or text first you wait for a call and you've said that before. Then you get guilt-tripped into that and blamed for that. When they know you have social anxiety. Then they'll try to put you in situations you don't want to be in even after they already know, you hate being in crowded rooms and can't breathe in them. Then if you don't show up, you'll get guilted for that. Every little thing you do you'll be made feel guilty for missing or for not doing whenever they could've done something to help you be there and didn't. They could've done something to stop or ease the pain but they didn't. Why? Because they only care about themselves.
These type of people that bully you, make you feel these ways, and make you feel guilty about every little thing, are doing nothing but hurting you. You can try and try and try to please that person but they won't ever be satisfied. They feed off of drama and your pain and hurt. It's what they love to do. As long as they are happy that's all that matters. These type of people, no matter how badly it hurts you-you have to let go of. They aren't worth hurting yourself over anymore. You can love them with all your heart and soul but love them from a distance and stop letting them control you and your thoughts. This person has torn me apart for 20 years and I've had enough. I've had enough of my life and relationships being controlled by this person. I am my own self, I control my own thoughts and decisions and most of all my own life. It is my life and I'll live it the way I want to live it. Not by anyone else's rules anymore.
It's time to live my own life and stop letting someone else think they can control it. I'll love you always, but it's time to let go and love from a distance.
If you are going through this, know you aren't alone. It's one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do especially if it's a close family member. The thing is though, if you're an adult then you have the right to your own life and decisions. I know it sucks to hurt other people but you shouldn't continue to hurt yourself either. Do what is right for you for once, erase the toxic people and things out of your life and watch how much better it gets.
If you ever need advice or a friend I am here 24/7 and I know how you're feeling. Comment below your email, follow me on social media, or just email me at dawncraven12@gmail.com which is my communications email. I'm here for you.
I hope you all got the advice needed from this post and that it helps you to do what's best for you. Thank you so much for reading and check back soon for more. :)
Sometimes, you just have to let go of some people. If they come back to you as a better person then they really love you and are meant to be in your life. If they don't, it's time to let them go. You can try and try and try to change a person but they won't ever really change until you show them you won't put up with it anymore.
When a person is so toxic, and mean, and they just feed off of drama it's time to let them go. When all they do is guilt trip you and make you feel bad for their wrongs or for trying to do one thing that's good for you instead of just them for once it's time to let them go. When you try to talk to them about your problems and want them there for you as a friend or family but yet they turn it back around to their problems instead of yours they aren't worth it anymore. All they are doing is dragging you down. Focus on the people that are there when you need them. When you say you feel like dying and they say no you're going to be okay and make it out of this alive. When you say you can't handle it anymore and they say just hold on a little bit longer. Those are the real friends and family and people in your life worth keeping.
There are some though, that think they are the only ones with problems. Some that make others feel like they aren't worthy of life or living. These people love to act like a queen or king and like they rule the world and your world. They guilt trip you on your decisions and get mad when you try to run your own life and decisions. If you know me well enough and you're reading this, you know who I'm talking about because you know her too.
These type of people aren't real family or friends or lovers. They aren't who you need them to be and they aren't there when you need them. They'll claim they do everything in their power to make you happy, but then when it comes down to helping you they only worry about themselves and their problems. They'll crap talk everyone in the book then when someone else does it to them they get hurt. They'll feed off of drama and love to live in it. It's like drama is food to them and they can't survive without it. They are always mad at either you or another family member or friend. Then even when they are supposedly best friends with someone, they'll talk badly about them. They are severely two-faced and will not change nor grow up no matter how old they are.
They say something about you never calling even though they know you never call or text first you wait for a call and you've said that before. Then you get guilt-tripped into that and blamed for that. When they know you have social anxiety. Then they'll try to put you in situations you don't want to be in even after they already know, you hate being in crowded rooms and can't breathe in them. Then if you don't show up, you'll get guilted for that. Every little thing you do you'll be made feel guilty for missing or for not doing whenever they could've done something to help you be there and didn't. They could've done something to stop or ease the pain but they didn't. Why? Because they only care about themselves.
These type of people that bully you, make you feel these ways, and make you feel guilty about every little thing, are doing nothing but hurting you. You can try and try and try to please that person but they won't ever be satisfied. They feed off of drama and your pain and hurt. It's what they love to do. As long as they are happy that's all that matters. These type of people, no matter how badly it hurts you-you have to let go of. They aren't worth hurting yourself over anymore. You can love them with all your heart and soul but love them from a distance and stop letting them control you and your thoughts. This person has torn me apart for 20 years and I've had enough. I've had enough of my life and relationships being controlled by this person. I am my own self, I control my own thoughts and decisions and most of all my own life. It is my life and I'll live it the way I want to live it. Not by anyone else's rules anymore.
It's time to live my own life and stop letting someone else think they can control it. I'll love you always, but it's time to let go and love from a distance.
If you are going through this, know you aren't alone. It's one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do especially if it's a close family member. The thing is though, if you're an adult then you have the right to your own life and decisions. I know it sucks to hurt other people but you shouldn't continue to hurt yourself either. Do what is right for you for once, erase the toxic people and things out of your life and watch how much better it gets.
If you ever need advice or a friend I am here 24/7 and I know how you're feeling. Comment below your email, follow me on social media, or just email me at dawncraven12@gmail.com which is my communications email. I'm here for you.
I hope you all got the advice needed from this post and that it helps you to do what's best for you. Thank you so much for reading and check back soon for more. :)
